Found these awesome question prompts from @the.love.therapist and wanted to share my answers. Maybe this would be good to reflect on in your own journal too! It's not too late!!! 😉
- My birthday. My love and I have birthdays a day apart- hers being August 14, mine being August 15. We had a party together, it was only a month after I uhauled into her place. It was so much fun.
- The day my love asked me to be her girlfriend, it was so sweet and special. And I have to cheat and add a 2.5 here: the day she asked me to marry her. 💞
- New Year's Eve. We spent our first NYE together and had a delicious steak dinner, drank champagne, and rang in the new year with our candles and intentions going. It was perfect.
What did you learn about yourself this year?
I learned that I am capable, I learned that I am worthy of happiness and that I deserve it. I can accept good things. I learned that I am not afraid to jump and let the angels catch me. I have a lot of faith.
What mistakes did you make?
When it comes to blogging and my business, I made several mistakes. I am still learning as I go. One that comes to mind is not learning wordpress enough and letting that go and then moving to blogger. I do like blogger but it’s not as customizable and I don’t see it working for me long term. (Basically I need to hire someone to help me!)
What lessons did you learn?
I am not for everyone. It might hurt at first, but that’s okay. I also learned there is beauty in letting go.
How did you grow and heal?
I’ve been working a lot on my mindset since the middle of the year. I am in Law Of Attraction Coach Training and it’s been wonderful to help me let go of my scarcity mentality and step into an abundant mindset. I’ve noticed some big changes in my life since working on this which I plan to do a blog post about sometime soon.
I am also still growing and healing through my trauma and grief over my mama, I am still writing and dealing with that every day.
What do you need to forgive yourself or others for?
I need to forgive myself for making necessary changes that caused hurt to others. I was doing my best, and there’s nothing else I can do at this point. I need to forgive others for not being able to be happy for my new life.
Who supported you most?
My fiancee Miranda and her mother. They have both been fiercely in my corner since the middle of the year, and I would not be where I am now without them!
What habit did you change?
I quit vaping!!! Woohoo, I’m free!
What did you want to do, but didn’t?
Spend more time writing. Between moving and having to find a new work/life balance, I spent WAY TOO LITTLE time writing. I am just now getting into the groove and finding a routine that works for me. I’m excited for all the words on the page in 2023!
my own addition to the prompt:
Song of the year: workout by rainbow kitten surprise
I'd love to see your answers and I'd really love to know what your song of the year was! You all know I am so obsessed with music!
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